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Shabbat Blast 4/21/17: Memory Overload

04/21/2017 02:56:21 PM

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Shabbat Blast!!!

 

Erev Shabbat – April 21, 2017

Candle Lighting: 7:14 pm

Services: 8:00 pm

 

Shabbat,  April 22, 2017

Parshat Shemini

Nosh and Drosh 9:00 am

Services 9:45 am

 


Dear [first_name], 

We move into Yom Hashoa right on the heels of Pesach. I find this spiritually fascinating. On the 8th day of Pesach, we commemorated Yizkor, a day of personal remembrance, and on Sunday evening we will start another day of remembrance, Yom Hashoa, Holocaust Remembrance. And almost a week after that, we will have Yom Hazikaron, which is the Day of Remembrance for those who have died in service of the Land of Israel. You could say that we are on memory overload this time of year. So why do we have different days of memory?

I find this similar to a Jewish tradition that when you are burying a loved one at the cemetery you do not go directly to another grave to pay your respects. Some, if they want to visit another grave, leave the cemetery and then come back. This symbolic act acknowledges that each and every person has a unique spirit and deserves our focused attention. The same is true of Jewish communal memory. Each moment in history is so different from one another and evokes different connections.

Please join us this weekend as we share various moments of memory. You can daven with us tonight with moments during the Friday night service. Sunday morning you can view our Dalet and Hey students Holocaust projects, April 23 at 10:00 AM, followed by a speaker at 11:00 AM (Marilyn Shimon).

 

Asher Mattathias is presenting on Sunday (April 23) at 7:00 PM, followed by minyan at 8:00 PM, going into the vigil. The vigil will end with Minyan on Monday evening at 8:00 PM.  

Even if you cannot come to any of these moments, you are welcome to sit silently in the sanctuary, hearing the names of Holocaust victims being read.

Zachor. May our memory be strong and meaningful.

 

Shabbat shalom,

Rabbi Bernstein

 

PS: Instructions for the Vigil can be found below.

Our community has taken on the sacred task of guarding 6 candles representing the 6 million Jews who perished in the Holocaust. Each of you has signed up for a time slot this coming Sunday night through Monday night.  It is a tradition for our Jewish dead to never be alone before the funeral. They should be escorted at all times. Our brothers and sisters who died at the hands of the Nazis did not get this honor so we are filling that responsibility on Yom Hashoa, Holocaust Remembrance Day. Here is some information you need to know:

We still have the 6:30-7:30 PM shift open. Please help find other volunteers.

What should I do to prepare?

  • Please email the person below you in the list we have attached to be in touch and if you want, exchange cell phone #'s.

  • Think about how you might use this time.

What am I doing for 1 hour?

  • Reading the names of those who died out loud.

  • Sitting in silent contemplation.

  • Reading the Holocaust literature that is on the table.

  • Meditate on the flames.

  • Write thoughts, reflections and person stories of your own family in the communal journal that we are starting about the Holocaust.

When should I arrive?

  • Please be at the side door to switch shifts on the 1/2 hour.

  • The doors will be locked between shifts at night. A person from the previous shift will let you in ONLY ON THE 1/2 HOUR MARK. If you come earlier, please remain in your car unless it is during the day time when the office is open.

  • When your shift ends, one person should stay with the candles and one should let the next person in. If there is only one person, please go let the next shift in.

What should I do when my shift ends?

  • Go to the side door and let in the next group on the 1/2 hour.

  • There is a beautiful blessing to share with the next person which can be found on the table with the candles. Please read it in English AND/OR Hebrew.

What if I can't make my shift?

  • Please find someone to fill your spot.

  • Call and email Rabbi Bernstein at rabbi.bernstein@cbohr.org and (516) 400-6267 to let her know who will be there.

 

Between shifts, the exiting shomer will recite the following greeting:

מי ששכן את שמו בבית הזה הוא ישכין ביניכם אהבה ואחוה ושלום וריעות

Mi sheshiken et shemo babayit hazeh, hu yashkin beyneychem ahava, veachava, veshalom, vereut.

May God who caused God’s Name to dwell in this house cause love and friendship, peace and camaraderie to dwell among you.

 

If you have any questions email or call Rabbi Bernstein at rabbi.bernstein@cbohr.org, 516-697-6238.

 

Shabbat shalom,

Rabbi Bernstein


 

Yom Hashoa, Holocaust Remembrance Day, gives us the opportunity to honor those who suffered during this horrific period of history. It challenges us to never forget the human potential for cruelty, genocide, and apathy. This day calls for us to pay attention and spend the time reflecting, learning, and coming together to respect the dead and support the living.

This year, our community has taken on a special project. It is a Jewish tradition to have a guard, shomer, sit with a person who has died before he or she is buried. That way, no one is left alone and they are given the respect of having someone present with them. The Jewish people who died in the Holocaust did not have the dignity of having a shomerso our community will be acting as shomrim for the 24 hours of Yom Hashoa.People are taking one-hour shifts from Sun. April 23rd, 8:30 PM through Mon. April 24th, 8:00 PM. These people will sit in the sanctuary and guard 6 candles representing the 6 million Jews who died. They will read a list of names of the deceased, sit in silence, read about the Holocaust, and share reflections in a communal CBO journal.

We prefer to have 2 people taking shifts. If you know you would like to take a shift, please look at the drop down list for availability. At this point, we need more people to take day shifts and a couple of shifts in the middle of the night. We will start and end the guarding with minyan at 8:00 PM. If you cannot take a shift please join us for minyans and the speaker programs. 

Please contact Rabbi Bernstein (Rabbi.Bernstein@cbohr.org) or call the office (516)-781-3072 to sign up or get more information.


Congregation Beth Ohr Presents: Our Soldier's Speak.  Sergeant Benjamin Anthony speaks about "My Israeli Arab Conflict"  April 28, 2017.  Friday Night Services at 6:30 pm, Dinner at 7:30 Speaker at 8:30.  Cost for Dinner is $18 for Adults, $10 for Children, Under 3 are free.  Registration is required for dinner. Please click here to Register.  The Program and Speaker is Free, thanks to a generous Sponsorship by Lisa and Jonathan Israel and Shirley Siegel.


Join the Merrick Bellmore Jewish Community Council as we celebrate Yom Ha'atzmaut at Merrick Jewish Center. Light diner will be served at 6pm, with Israeli Music to follow at 7!!!  Tuesday May 2, 2017.


Monday Meditation! We are creating a meditation space in the Muraskin Room, and on the Second Monday of every month, we will have a Meditation Session.  We will gather in a quiet room at 7PM, where we will enjoy hot tea and personal meditative space.  At 7:20 Rabbi Bernstein will lead us in a guided meditation.  Please bring a yoga mat or cushion of your choice.  Chairs will be available for those who do not wish to sit on the floor.  Next session is May 8, 2017.  You do not need to attend all sessions.  Registration is appreciated but not required.



Sisterhood Paint Night!!!  Tuesday April 25, 2017 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm.  $36 per person, paid at the door.  Advance registration IS required as there is a minimum number for this event.  Please DO NOT submit payment via ShulCloud.  Payment must be remitted directly to Congregation Beth Ohr Sisterhood.  Thank you!


The Alix Rubinger Food Pantry is open and volunteers are always needed.  Please call the office if you can offer your time.  We are looking for people to staff when the doors are open, as well as come in on off hours to maintain the space and stock the shelves with donations.


Family Kabbalat Shabbat! Join us on the first Friday of every month for a special Family Service.  Services will begin at 6:30.  Dinner or a special themed snack will follow!  May 5 (Bet Class Shabbat), June 2.


The New And Improved Junior Congregation! Join us for our next great Junior Congregation on April 22, 10AM in the Muraskin Room. There will be learning, there will be noshing.  Our talented Educators will be explaining the Saturday Morning Service, discuss the prayers in depth and how they pertain to each of us, and of course, bagels.  Parents are welcome (Encouraged) to come to the Sanctuary during this time.  Stay for a lovely kiddush with the entire congregation.  Click here for a printable flyer with the dates.  


Rabbi's Bar/Bat Mitzvah Class!  Mondays at 6PM, join the Rabbi for an informative class to learn all about the Torah/Haftorah Service, the prayers and tunes associated with it, and the history of the Bar/Bat Mitzvah service.  This is geared toward those who do not have any background in the Torah Service.  Flyer is available here.

 

We’re Heading to Israel in 2018. Informational sessions have occurred. If you are interested, contact Rabbi Bernstein or the office! Seats are filling up fast. There is a limit of 40 people, and it is first come, first served.  Click here for a detailed itinerary!



Conservative Movement Condemns President Trump's Executive Order on Immigration and Refugees


NEW YORK - The Conservative/Masorti movement of Judaism as represented by its constituent organizations listed below has issued the following statement regarding the executive order President Donald Trump signed on Friday barring many refugees and immigrants from entering the United States:

Deeply rooted in our tradition, faith, and values, we are a people of immigrants. Throughout our history we often were the stranger in a strange land and were persecuted and attacked simply for being the other. As Jews, it is not only our religious values that speak to welcoming those who seek shelter and safety, but it is also a pillar of free, democratic nations.

Our religious tradition repeatedly forbids us from oppressing the stranger. For instance, Leviticus 19:34 commands us, 'The strangers who reside with you shall be to you as your citizens; you shall love each one as yourself, for you were strangers in the land of Egypt.' And Exodus 22:21, 'And you shall not wrong a stranger, neither shall you oppress them; for you were strangers in the land of Egypt.' It is a betrayal of Jewish history and our own Jewish values to stand quiet as victims of war and terror are left helpless -- especially on the basis of religion.

The protracted war in Syria has created 7 million displaced persons within Syria alone and millions more throughout the Middle East, with refugees escaping through Turkey, the Balkans and Europe. Meanwhile, millions of undocumented immigrants in America live in fear of imprisonment, deportation or worse.

The Conservative movement has continuously and consistently advocated for the rights of immigrants including pathways to citizenship and family reunification as a top priority. We call on the US government to reject policy proposals that would halt, limit, or curtail refugee resettlement in the U.S. or prioritize certain refugees over others; and urge President Trump and the U.S. Congress to instead take bold leadership by providing robust funding to support refugees around the world as well as provide necessary resources to refugees who are already resettled in the U.S.

Most importantly, the Conservative Movement completely rejects the targeting of individuals based on their religion. As Jews, it is an affront to our fundamental values. We are all enriched by the diverse set of experiences that immigrants bring to our society. We see it not only throughout our economy and educational system, but also in our synagogues, camps, schools, and institutions where people of diverse backgrounds, countries of origin and experiences come together to pray to the same God, who sees us all as equals. To do otherwise betrays the Jewish values we find deeply engrained in our faith and history.

Rabbinical Assembly
United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism
The Jewish Theological Seminary
Ziegler School of Rabbinic Studies
Cantors Assembly
Federation of Jewish Men's Clubs
Mercaz USA
Women's League for Conservative Judaism

 

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Human Rights Awareness Walk

The Holocaust Memorial and Tolerance Center of Nassau County (HMTC), The Jewish Community Relations Council of Long Island (JCRC-LI) and The Workmen’s Circle are collaborating on a Walk in support of Human Rights. This is an outgrowth of the Walk Against Genocide program that Workmen’s Circle has been leading during the past few years.

The purpose of the Walk is to promote awareness about human rights concerns facing individuals and groups around the world. Issues such as genocide, human trafficking, unsafe labor practices, child abuse, domestic violence and sexual abuse, abuse of migrant workers and ethnic cleansing are just some examples of violations of human rights taking place in countries spanning the globe. We aim to spread awareness of these issues to engage community members in social action, community service and advocacy.

The Human Rights Awareness Walk is a FREE event that will take place on a Sunday, April 30, 2017 at Eisenhower Park from 10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m. The walk is about 1 mile in length. We aim to attract community members of all ages and cultures.

We are pleased to be joining efforts on a communal issue of importance and would like to know if your synagogue would like to participate. If there are other organizations or individuals you believe would be interested in participating, please also let us know.

There is no financial commitment. We simply ask that you save the date, share flyers among your members, and encourage people to attend. If you wish to set up a table at the event, you may do so, however it is not required. We will gladly list your organization’s name on the flyer which will be used to promote the Walk.

If you have any questions, please let us know. We look forward to hearing from you.

Sincerely, 
Mindy Perlmutter, JCRC-LI, 516-433-0433, perlmutterm@jcrcli.org 
Robyn Berman, JCRC-LI, 516-433-0433, bermanr@jcrcli.org 
Tracy Garrison Feinberg, HMTC, 516-571-8040, ext. 106, tracygarrisonfeinberg@hmtcli.org 
Staci Davis, Workmen’s Circle, 516-794-0506, sdcsw@aol.com

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"Or Lachayal" and its strategic mezuzah project for IDF.

Having a kosher mezuzah on every doorpost is one of the most important and widely observed mitzvot in the Torah, and is especially important now, with the dangerous security situation in Israel.

In addition to its religious significance, a mezuzah affords physical protection to everyone dwelling in the house, while at home or away. In Psalm 121:8, King David refers to the mitzvah of mezuzah with the words, "Hashem will protect your going out and coming in from now and forevermore." In fact, the Hebrew letters shin, dalet and yud, inscribed on every mezuzah, are an acronym for one of the names of G-d Protector of the Doors of Israel.

It is no exaggeration to say that this project has the potential to change the course of Jewish history by giving our soldiers an extra measure of blessing in their holy mission of defending the Land and its people.

Or Lachayal was founded in 2000, following an attack on Rabbi Menachem Ofen and his brother by Hamas terrorists near Hebron, while on their way to deliver Purim baskets to soldiers. Although their injuries were severe, they miraculously survived and decided to devote their life to raising IDF morale, enhancing the soldiers' awareness of their Jewish heritage and bringing them light and joy.

In the past few years, Or Lachayal has developed a wonderful relationship with the Friends of the IDF (FIDF). As part of our collaboration, FIDF has initiated a matching funding program with Or Lachayal, aimed at addressing the spiritual needs of the soldiers. This assistance has been instrumental in bringing our programs to an ever-growing number of army personnel. Our morale-boosting events throughout the year, holiday programming, which brings the excitement and happiness of the holidays to the bases, as well as educational and recreational programs have reached hundreds of thousands of soldiers.

Providing for the spiritual needs of the soldiers is a major part of our work. Due to the tremendous demand we are witnessing, Or Lachayal has undertaken a unique project of historic proportions to provide a kosher, mehudar mezuzah for every entryway in the army.

As part of this project, Or Lachayal will install 40,000 mezuzot, first and foremost at places that lack any mezuzah, and then replace those that are no longer kosher. The mezuzot will include a durable cover to ensure adequate protection from the elements, so that the new mezuzot will remain kosher for as long as possible.

The cost of each mezuzah is $40 for a total of $1.6 million.

We have obtained matching funding for half of this sum, and we would be honored if you would consider partnering with us for the remaining half ($800,000). Needless to say, any donation that you would make to the project will enable us to move forward. I am available to answer additional questions at any time. Thank you in advance for your consideration.

All checks should be sent to:

FIDF

60 east 42nd Street

New York, NY 10165

With a note: contribution to Or Lachayal Mezuza Project.

Please also send an email to: Rabbi Menachem Or Lachayal (orlachayal@gmail.com) so they can track checks.

 

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